hey, i am a 20 year old female and since moving away to university i've felt very confused about my sexuality. I have thought that i may be bisexual for a while but I've only ever ben with boys. Recently i went on a night out and ended up kissing a girl and it felt so right, but the thought of having sex with a girl really freaks me out. I don't know if id enjoy it, and where i've only had male sexual partners I have no idea what I'm doing, makes me so nervous i've never even considered doing it.
I'm supposed to be going on a date with this girl, but the thought of doing anything more than kissing makes me so nervous and makes me question whether i should even go on this date - i like her but she's sure on her sexuality, i don't want to lead her on if i decide it's not for me.
I don't know if i'm just confusing my emotions, it felt right when i kissed her but i'm not sure if sex would feel right. Does this mean i'm not bisexual?
Do ring the Switchboard if you want a chat with a well trained volunteer. Lines are open from 10am to 10pm everyday. Sometimes they are busy and you may have to phone another time, but do persevere. The number is at the top of the page - 0300 330 0630.
You ask the question 'Does this mean I'm not bisexual?' We always advise that only you can decide what label describes you best. Sexuality labels are just for convenience and they are not set in stone for anyone. People can change at anytime in their life too. Some people never change. So please don't be overly worried.
Hope that helps. Let us know how you get on. Best wishes Simon.