I’m considering using a dating app to find guys to talk to about experiences and how they feel etc. Just need to try and get some perspective etc. Am I naive to think I’ll find someone that way who doesn’t want to also hook up. I am not looking for sex.
Sorry for taking so long in getting back to you - we were away for quite a stint over the festive break.
I can only speak to my own experience, but although I've found people on the mainstream apps who have been willing to chat, they have often been really sex-focused. Maybe you could try looking into some of the socials or support groups run by the various LGBTQ+ charities across the UK? The are gay / bi mens groups where people come together and talk about their experiences. Just a thought.